We always believe that there is no one more intelligent then us. We believe that we know every thing and have the knowledge of every thing. But what happened when we decide something and after some time we feel that we indulge in some perdition due to our own decision. But we do not want to desist, we never want to admit our fault and never say our self that we are wrong. I am also doing the same thing, I never admit my faults and always insisted that i am always right. Whenever I make any plane I always think that it is perfect but after some time when I receive the feedback or after shocks then still my heart do not want to desist on my own fault.
Actually we destroy our self with our own hands, we destroy our whole life and the life hereafter with our own hands. Allah clearly mentioned that we adopt the perdition with our own hands and no one is responsible for our trouble. We must know that Allah likes only those who are doing good and surely who believe in good deeds.
Kindly read the following verse of the Holy Quran as mentioned below:
"And spend in the way of Allah and cast not yourselves to perdition with your own hands, and do good (to others); surely Allah loves the doers of good."
(Surah No:2 & Verse No: 195)
Allah like those people who spend in the way of Allah, but what is the way of Allah. To spend on the poor, widows, orphans, and on our poor relative. We must understand that we must spend from the Hilal income and it does not means that we spend from the earning by means of hook and crook and spend on the way of Allah. May Allah forgive us and send his blessing on us to spend the money on the poor and gave us the ability to help the poor and doing the good things.