In our whole life we face different kind of problems and after each problem the major question arise in our mind is "Why Me?". Why Allah choose me for this problem?. Why Allah send this difficulty on me?. In the whole world why me?. On each problem either it is in shape of death of some close relative, loss in the wealth or business and loss of health etc. Always we first say Why Me, Why Me. We always think that we are the favorite of Allah. On which basis we think like that nothing, just assumption. We spend all our life against the communication of Holy Quran and despite all our wrong deeds we assume that Allah will not send His wrath on me.
The most important thing is "Me". All the people will die but not "Me". All the people will face downfall but not "Me". All the people will loose their health and wealth but not "Me". We always smiles on the problems of the others but have no right to other people to smile on "Me". We never forgot or forgive the others on their mistake but expect that all others will forgive "Me".
To understand why it happened with "Me" kindly read the verse of Holy Quran as mentioned below:
"So We made them an example to those who witnessed it and those who came after it, and an admonition to those who guard (against evil)".
(Para No:1 & Verse No: 66)
Allah made us an example to those who witness us . If we will not act upon the communication of the Holy Quran then He send his wrath in shape of many ways and when we face the difficulty we start crying and weeping on that problem. We want that this problem will shift to some other one. If some our close relative died then we wish that it will never happened, some other died but not our relative. We just enjoy the bomb blast news on the television and nothing feel, but when we are also affected of the same incident then we behave like dooms day.
We never analysis our mistakes and faults, we always blame to Allah that why He send such problem on "Me". First of all i and we need to change this "Me". We are all same and if some problem and punishment was given to any one then the same wrath will be on our own self.